Some people have a judgmental attitude to life. They judge everything and everyone with one standard and judge themselves with another. They believe they know what’s in everybody’s heart. This is a very wrong attitude to life and God is never pleased with such people.
When you see a brother do a certain thing in a way you don’t understand, first find out more information about it before saying or doing anything. Don’t reject anyone on hearsay! Don’t join the multitude to condemn! Never reject a man because he doesn’t conform to what you believe to be true. You may not have heard everything about the matter or been exposed to some information he’s exposed to.
The Bible says the Lord Jesus has been “…ordained of God to be the Judge of quick (living) and dead” (Acts 10:42). He alone is the true Judge; nevertheless He is rich in mercy. God's mercy knows no bound; however, you can have it increased in your life by being merciful to others. "For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again." (Luke 6:38).
In your life, never judge or condemn. Make up your mind to journey the way of Christ. This is the path to true joy and happiness, the path totally void of bitterness.